How do you try not being socially awkward?

Well, I'm the same way so I know first hand exactly where you are coming from. What I do is what until someone says something I can relate to and just say something about it, that way its easier for me to engage in the conversation, just avoid being random, because im random without realizing it, and it makes people spin their heads and say what? Bottom line- have confidence, dont be shy or scared, because what people think about you negatively does not matter, and if these people are worthy of your time, they will take their time to sit down and listen to what you have to say. Besides, when quiet people talk their worlds are golden :) :-p I hope that helped.